All foolish leaders believe they understand things they don’t.
- Are cocky not confident – fearful.
- Pretend they like you when they don’t – manipulator.
- Reject authority – arrogant.
- Express anger quickly – impulsive.
- Blab rather than listen – know-it-all.
Leaders with understand know they don’t fully understand.
Leaders with understanding:
- Seek guidance as passionately as profit.
- Remain open and interested. Weak minds close; strong open. Fools know.
- Don’t have that, “can’t wait till you stop talking,” look in their eye.
- Speak well of others. Fools badmouth.
- Lean into insights from others wholeheartedly. Wise leaders always have stories about their wise teachers.
- Know how to change their mind without becoming wishy-washy.
- Spend time in self-reflection.
- Receive correction humbly and gratefully.
- Submit to, align with, and model organizational values.
- Remain cool when things get hot. People with understanding enjoy inner calm.
- Display optimism.
- Maintain focus.
- Know it takes time for people to say things they really believe. The first things people say usually aren’t the most important.
- Have track records of personal achievement.
- Resist pressure to conform with grace rather than anger. Weakness lashes out and bullies.
- Learn from the mistakes of others.
- Never laugh at injustice, scoff at abuse, or take advantage of those without power.
- Admire wisdom. The people you admire tell me who you want to be.
- Love learning. Ask leaders with understanding what they’re reading and their eyes light up.
- Development others.
Bonus: Leaders with understanding appreciate the wonder, privilege, and mystery of leadership.
Have you worked with a leader who had understanding? What were they like?
Which marks of understand do you find most important or challenging?
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