Category Archive: Personal Growth

Seize Pivotal Moments

Pivotal moments disrupt life. Running from them shrinks your future.

Pivotal moments are interventions that expand potential.

Marcus Aurelius said, “The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.”

Here’s how to seize pivotal moments for your advantage.

The Generosity Advantage

Skill can’t compensate for a stingy heart. 

Advantage grows when it’s given.

Generosity multiplies influence.

Let what comes to you flow through you.

Do you know the four foundational strengths of generosity?

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Action Before Ability

Take action before you’re competent. You act without ability when you learn to hit a baseball, for example.

The less you do, the less you’re able to do.

When effort drops, tolerance for effort fades.

The more you do, the more you can do.

You learn to lead by leading.

Here’s how…

Average Ideas Are Dangerous

The danger of average ideas is they work.

“The chief object of education is not to learn things but to unlearn things.” G.K. Chesterton

Old dogs don’t learn when they can’t unlearn.

Average ideas are safe. It’s scary to embrace new ways of thinking.

We desire change but refuse to let go.

Beyond Resilience

Empathy destroys us when it makes excuses. Grit is pressing forward.

Getting beyond resilience multiplies competence.

Delicate teams argue over trivialities.

Avoiding discomfort leads to weakness.

The feeble need rescue. The competent grow through challenge.

Resilience survives. Antifragile* teams thrive.

Here’s how to get beyond resilience and turn adversity into advantage.

Become an “Ideal” Leader

A leader with ideals always strives but never arrives.

Anne Frank wrote, “It’s a wonder I haven’t abandoned all my ideals, they seem so absurd and impractical.”

Ideals are unreachable perfections. Excellence is always a pursuit.

Ideals make demands.

Ideals expose inadequacy.

Ideals show the way.

7 Leadership Ideals…