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Initiative: 4 Ways to Act without Permission

New ideas always encounter resistance. Success requires initiative. Leaders act without permission. There’s too much permission-asking in organizations. You’ve been asking permission all your life. It began when you were a kid. How… Continue reading

The Joyful Pleasures and Shameful Permissions of Comparison

They say you shouldn’t compare yourself with others, but sometimes comparing is unblemished enjoyment. When your car outshines your neighbor’s, talking about cars is pleasurable, for example. Pleasure of comparison: On a trip… Continue reading

Cows and New Gates – The Power of Unspoken Permission

The boss cow has a long line of cows behind her when they head to the barn. The grass wears away and a narrow cow sidewalk hardens under their hooves because they follow… Continue reading

Powerful Insights from Questions You Hear

Dingbats don’t ask questions. Smart people ask powerful questions. Geniuses gain insights from the questions they hear. You might feel like Mr./Ms. big britches when people ask you questions. But lousy leaders hear… Continue reading

5 “Dangers” of Psychological Safety

I married my high school sweetheart. Neither of us had any idea what we were getting into. It’s been delightful until this afternoon. My bride came to my office to let me know… Continue reading

The Goal of Helping is Enabling, Not More Helping

Ego needs to feel important. A ego-filled leader enjoys dependent relationships. Helping feels good. It’s destructive when people can’t move forward without you. Reject the ego-building intoxication that comes from being needed. The… Continue reading