Category Archive: Optimism

Defeat Negativity

Negativity is a way of explaining. Change the explanation. Change the outcome.

Pessimists explain problems as: Permanent. Personal. Pervasive.

Optimistic leaders explain problems as: Temporary. Specific. Changeable.

“Finding temporary and specific causes for misfortune is a sign of hope.” Martin Seligman

Restless Optimism Not Toxic Positivity

Pessimists can’t lead. Leading is the practice of restless optimism.

Contentment that induces slumber degrades you. Accept your present. Stay hungry to improve. 

“Show me a thoroughly satisfied man and I will show you a failure.” Thomas A. Edison

Passion is optimistic discontent.

The Art of Restless Contentment

Contentment is peaceful, not passive.

“Show me a thoroughly satisfied man and I will show you a failure.”— Thomas A. Edison

Be content with the present and restless for what’s next. 

Restless contentment believes tomorrow can be better. Aspirational contentment honors talent, respects potential, enjoys today, and steps toward the future.

3 Ways to Confront Unrealistic Optimism

Positive thinking doesn’t cure cancer or prevent wars. Unrealistic optimism might cause wars and increase the likelihood you’ll get cancer.

You do stupid things when you underestimate the possibility of failure.

3 ways to be a realistic optimist…

5 Powerful Ways to Release Negativity

Negativity comforts defeat. Defeatists get it right eventually. Bad stuff happens. Small problems escalate into crisis. Predicting troubles is useful, but it doesn’t fuel success. Greatness includes self-confidence. Wallowing is defeat. Negativity: Leaders… Continue reading

Yes is Better Than No

The law of the hole states, “When you find yourself in a hole stop digging.”

No is a hole. Yes is a door.

5 ways to live into yes…