Tag Archive: default responses

The Blindside Express

The hardest situation is the one you don’t see coming.

You prepare for trains you see coming. Scheduled meetings. Client appointments. Performance issues.

The Blindside Express turns a manageable issue into a crisis.

Determine how to show up when the inevitable happens.

Here’s how…

Triggers: When Someone Pushes Your Buttons

A baby’s giggle, an insult, and being trusted with new responsibilities all have one thing in common. They’re triggers.

Frustration triggers me to talk louder. I choose to do the opposite. I ask questions and soften my tone. That’s my goal, at least.

Turn triggers into advantage.

Choose Your Default Response to Everything

You aren’t always proud of default responses. “When I feel on the spot,” a young leader said, “I freeze up. I don’t know what to do or say.” Image source Three defaults: Stress… Continue reading

How Hammers Become Screw Drivers

Little Mary just knocked a glass of milk on the floor. That’s what two year old’s do. There’s a group of five leaders at the table. Bob waves the waiter over and says,… Continue reading