Three Decisions That Actually Get You to the C‑Suite
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Everyone says they want “a seat at the table.” Few are willing to make the decisions that truly earn it and keep it.
In The Executive Code: Rise. Lead. Last, I call these invisible transitions the real work of enterprise leadership. They’re rarely addressed in development programs, but they determine whether you rise, whether you thrive once you get there, and whether your leadership actually lasts.
Decision 1: Stop acting like a high performer; start acting like an enterprise leader.
High performers win by delivering results in their lane. Enterprise leaders win by defining the game for the whole business. The closer you get to the C‑suite, the less your value is doing the work and the more it is clarifying the problem, tradeoffs, and impact for everyone else.
Decision 2: Trade comfort for clarity.
Rising leaders often manage for harmony; executives manage for alignment. That means saying the thing others are skirting, naming the hard constraint, and choosing principles over popularity. If your team is sometimes uncomfortable but never confused about what matters, you’re doing your job.
Decision 3: Lead like your legacy is being written now because it is.
The C‑suite doesn’t give you more character; it amplifies what is already there. Your legacy is built in the opportunities you create, the standards you insist on, and the behavior you refuse to overlook in your highest performers.
Before your next big decision, ask, “What would the enterprise‑first version of me do here, and how will this look in my legacy?” Then act from that place.
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Andrea Nicholas is an executive leadership advisor and author of The Executive Code: Rise. Lead. Last. She works with seated and aspiring C‑suite leaders to strengthen judgment, influence, and impact.
Spot on! Interesting insight.
Indeed very interesting!
“…the behavior you refuse to overlook in your highest performers” – this really resonates. Too often people/organizations protect their high performers for the results they deliver, and ignore how they treat people, their alignment with values, etc. The at what cost question is critical. People watch, adapt to what leaders allow.
In essence, “Rise” is about proving oneself through building credibility by developing expertise, deliver consistent results, and cultivate visibility across the organization to be seen as a trusted leader.
“Lead” is about scaling and expanding one’s influence – shifting from managing tasks to inspiring people, aligning teams with strategy, and making decisions that affect the entire enterprise.
“Last” is about sustaining impact, enduring and leaving a legacy in the form of maintaining resilience, adaptability, and integrity while navigating complex pressures, ensuring long-term organizational success and personal legacy.
I absolutely love the line, “If your team is sometimes uncomfortable but never confused about what matters, you’re doing your job.” In positions of true leadership you have to be ok having critical conversations with people but these are only effective if your people know the vision of your work. Too frequently people think they are leading by just disagreeing with people. When this happens without clarity of purpose, it can be extremely counterproductive.
Excellent points. Excited to read this book!
This post (and book) are meaningful to me as I am navigating this currently. Can’t wait to read this one and loved the post – has me thinking about what I am doing in my leadership role.
I am going to use this article’s content in an executive forum that I facilitate every month. This should be an exciting conversation. The point that they need to stop acting like high performers is one that is difficult for them to understand. All high achievers! The organization rewards performance not leadership. Thank you for this so timely message.
I love the section on Trading Comfort for Clarity, “If your team is sometimes uncomfortable but never confused about what matters, you’re doing your job.” I am excited to read the book and apply the principals mentioned in it.
Decision #2 and the following really made me stop and think this morning:
That means saying the thing others are skirting, naming the hard constraint, and choosing principles over popularity. If your team is sometimes uncomfortable but never confused about what matters, you’re doing your job.
A moment of reflection that has me taking a deeper dive on myself. Thank you.
“Enterprise leaders win by defining the game for the whole business.” Its the business of defining the game. Clarity comes from keeping the “game alive” in everyone’s mind. Legacy is defining the continual aspects (new and changing) that come from the market and helping your organization help your customers get there.
I like “keeping the game alive in everyone’s mind” – as technology, people, and the world continues to evolve every day, it’s incredibly important to have a growth mindset to allow yourself to learn from the ever-changing market, which helps both your customers and employees!
I practiced these principles and was told I didn’t have emotional
Intelligence. After 10 years I was passed over for a rare opening in career advancement.
Moving to clarifying the problem from doing the work – that is the most elegant way of describing it!
This would be very appliable to my role and future career goals. Thanks for offering this.
Paul Fein
In line with my leadership development organization – The IDD Leadership Group LLC – INSPIRE / DRIVE / DELIVER. Leaders need real and authentic, as stated with details in my forth leadership book – A.U.T.H.E.N.T.I.C Leadership. The fifth book at press is – Being a Dynamic EXCEPTIONAL Leader. Leadership is about trust and reality!
Thank you for this: “If your team is sometimes uncomfortable but never confused about what matters, you’re doing your job.” … It’s hard sometimes to see the team stressed out and uncomfortable, I want to FIX IT, but that isn’t always the right answer.
As a new Executive Director, I’m soaking this up!
Great article!! What really resonated with me was “…saying the thing others are skirting, naming the hard constraint, and choosing principles over popularity”.
After being a high performer for 30+ years, I am interested to learn more about “The closer you get to the C‑suite, the less your value is doing the work and the more it is clarifying the problem, tradeoffs, and impact for everyone else.” It will be hard to convince my mindset that I no longer have to perform at a high level, because it appears that I do, just in a different capacity.
Love this!
Learning how to have healthy conflict (trading comfort for clarity) is something I wish I had learned years ago. It is key to success, especially as your lanes expand. The transition from high performer to enterprise leader requires a shift in mindset and I wish more people talked about that. You’re still performing at a high level, but the metrics by which your effectiveness is measured change.
“Your legacy is built in the opportunities you create, the standards you insist on, and the behavior you refuse to overlook in your highest performers.” Really great quote to reflect on for today. Loved this!! -Natalie Ortiz
The reality is that many people are both doing the work and trying to lead at the same time, which can lead to burnout and important tasks being overlooked. I’ve learned the value of delegation and building strong rapport with capable individuals. When you trust your team, things get done effectively, and it frees up your time to focus on higher priorities instead of overwhelming yourself with too many tasks. The key to being a good leader is building relationships with people who can help turn the final goal into reality.
I have been struggling for years and this is where I am at. I need to read this.
Interesting, can’t wait to read this book, compared to some other leadership books I’ve recently read.
Executives manage for alignment, which is priceless knowledge! Without alignment across an organization, you gradually tear it apart. The leader should consistently reinforce their organization’s vision and mission. They are the CRO, Chief Repeating Officer.
Sometimes, it takes a fair amount of listening and asking questions to help others untangle situations and see solutions.
Most people don’t think about legacy until it is too late. And, people tend to think of legacy in terms of materials or products. Legacy is also in the people you leave behind. Are they leading like you want them to lead, like you modeled for them. Do they embody the leadership characteristics you exemplified as their leader?
As a leader, Decision 2 really speaks to me, managing for harmony versus managing for alignment. As another commenter above mentioned as well, healthy conflict as a leader is not a bad thing. Thanks for this post.
Letting others do more (if not most) of the work has been certainly the most difficult aspect for me. This article is spot on!
As a young leader who has experienced growth and mentorship, Decision 1 echoes what I’ve been told time and again, especially this: “The closer you get to the C‑suite, the less your value is doing the work and the more it is clarifying the problem, tradeoffs, and impact for everyone else.” Too many people still associate climbing with grinding or hustling and get lost in busyness. Leaders learn to strategically prioritize and delegate, while also ensuring the work gets done by those who could use that as a growth opportunity. My main goal as a leader: Work myself out of a job by elevating those who I’m responsible for.
Managing for alignment and trading comfort for clarity – simple concepts that are difficult to implement but we should all aspire to do so. Great post!
” If your team is sometimes uncomfortable but never confused about what matters, you’re doing your job. ” Clarity creates confidence and delaying the uncomfortable interaction is multiplying its discomfort
love the distinction between high-performers and enterprise leaders! I had not thought about it this way.
The best advice I have been given aligns with #1, stop doing and start leading. It is no longer about what you can do but how you lift others to their full potential.
The enterprise point is something all leaders need to hear. Very easy to confuse high performance with being an enterprise leader.
This line resonates with me “Your legacy is built in the opportunities you create, the standards you insist on, and the behavior you refuse to overlook in your highest performers.” We often talk about setting the bar and challenge people – this includes behaviors not just the output of work they are able to deliver.
Decision 1 seems to be the hardest. When you have lived your life as a high performer, it’s difficult to get out of that mindset. Some never do.