Category Archive: Coaching

Inspire Insight

A moment of insight unlocks life.

You can’t force insight. People find it when conditions are right.

Turn conversations toward transformation.

Learn 5 Pillars for Helping Others Gain Insight.

A Guide to Lousy Coaching

Unintentional sabotage is still destructive. Lousy coaching personalities create confusion during development conversations. They use words like “coaching” but really mean instructing.

Don’t be:

Fix-It Freddy
Leaky Linda
Vague-asaurus Rex
Support-Me-Not Susan

Bad coaching isn’t a mistake. It’s a catastrophe.

Included here are 5 ways to improve your coaching.

The Day I Gave My Wife Instruction

Yesterday my wife said, “You drive weird.” In a professorial tone, I told her, “That’s judging, not observing.” She got instruction she didn’t ask for.

She was laughing too loud to hear me.

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Time-Saving Secrets for Coaching Managers

Busy managers say they don’t have time to coach—but coaching is what employees want most.

The good news? Coaching saves time when done right. Learn 3 time-saving strategies and 10 powerful contrasts between coaching and traditional managers.

Stop doing more. Start doing what matters most.

Instant Coaching: Three Questions That Ignite Action

If your day is packed, maximize brief encounters. Turn short interactions into dynamic coaching moments. Use three questions to ignite action.

Ask about the present.
Ask about the future.
Ask about action.

Unlock People Using the GROW Model

Coaching is harder when the coach is the boss. Open listening, courageous honesty, and not fixing are rare in conversations when one person has organizational authority.

Frameworks provide clarity, consistency, and confidence in coaching relationships. Use four questions that align with the GROW model.