Anger is a Check-Engine Light
The idea that anger is bad is poppycock. Feelings are information. Frustration is the most informative.
Hot emotions are a check-engine light. Yellow calls for maintenance. Red says, “Look under the hood.”
Warning lights don’t cause problems. They reveal them.
Frustration is a signal, not a solution
People say forgiving feels like giving in, but the world collapses when every interaction becomes a courtroom.
Immaturity always stands up for itself. But strength isn’t loud. Power isn’t demanding.
For example, open-hearted kindness requires confidence. The best insecurity can do is manipulate people with fake generosity. Greed hides behind fairness.
Pride used to be conceit. It turned angels into devils. But today you should be proud of yourself. Parents encourage their kids to feel it. Not all pride is equal. I’ve seen good… Continue reading
A client said, “It’s been quiet for three weeks. I haven’t achieved the challenge you gave me months ago.”
My mind went to “shoe-drop” conversations. But he didn’t go there.
He referred to this challenge. “The next time we talk, I want you to complain about being bored.”
Creating and Maximizing Quiet…
Medical history is filled with well-meaning efforts that damaged people. In the 1830’s Paris alone used 5 to 6 million leaches a year. Bloodletting began in ancient Egypt and continued until the 19th century.
Ignorant sincerity is dangerous.
The truth about “I meant no harm” is painful.
It’s easy to inspire people. Stop focusing on yourself. Show people that what matters to them matters to you. Enjoy their enthusiasm.
Step into excitement, not on it.
The founder of Chick-fil-A said, “How do you identify someone who needs encouragement? That person is breathing.”
Here’s how to inspire anyone.
