Tag Archive: Conflict Resolution

Three Secrets For Transforming Conflict Into Creative Energy

Some people have positive, healthy associations with conflict, but most do not. The casualties of conflict:     Drama.     Violence.     Broken relationships.     Uncomfortable tension. The culprit: Conflict isn’t the problem. Google the word “conflict” and… Continue reading

5 Ways to Find Vitality in Disagreement

Giving solutions, without exploring issues, lets people know you aren’t listening. Solutions found in isolation are irritations to others. 3 ways to let others know you aren’t listening: #1. Focus on positions. Defensive conversations are… Continue reading

The 4 Hidden Agendas Concealed in Complaints

The “make it go away” fairy doesn’t exist. Ignored complaints fester. Uncover the real dissatisfaction before solving complaints. The 4 hidden agendas concealed in complaints: “You should have ….” You caused the problem… Continue reading

Solution Saturday: The VP Verbally Attacked Me

Dear Dan, I’m in need of some advice.  I have an outstanding CEO.  I truly enjoy having her as a leader.  She believes in me and values my opinion.  I was recently promoted… Continue reading

12 Ways to Rise After Being Thrown Under the Bus

Every leader has a few tread-marks on their back. How deep they go depends on you. Being thrown under the bus means someone elevated their status and lowered yours in front of others.… Continue reading

Solution Saturday: Dealing with Ms. Rigid

Hi Dan, I lead a team of amazing professionals who are passionate and committed to the work we do. One team member is … rigid in her thinking and ambushes me at staff… Continue reading