Tag Archive: disrespect

Lessons from Bluebook Gobbledygook

My Sociology prof gave bluebook essay exams. I was convinced he didn’t read them. To test my theory, I filled two bluebooks with gobbledygook. Most of it wasn’t even real words.

I got an A.

Here’s what I learned…

Respect: A Free Untapped Advantage

Disrespect shrivels people. It awakens the inner accuser. Public correction invites people to feel stupid.

Lack of respect promotes learned helplessness.

Nearly 80% of employees lower their commitment when they feel disrespected.

One of the most powerful things leaders do is show respect. It costs nothing.

Respect lets people know they matter.

R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Few things sting more than the sting of disrespect. Put-downs are nothing more than disrespect. Facebook fans filled in the blank: I feel disrespected when ______. Someone looks at their phone or computer… Continue reading

How to Defeat the Dangers of Disrespect

Foolish leaders disrespect intentionally. But, for many, disrespect is accidental. Disrespectful leaders demoralize the team. You’re disrespectful when you: Answer for others in meetings. Help when help isn’t needed. Over-helpfulness suggests others aren’t… Continue reading

Drucker: Treat Employees Like Volunteers

Lousy leaders think pay checks are permission to treat people like slaves. Control: I caught an awkward glimpse of myself when I asked my wife, “Would you like me to tell you what… Continue reading