How to Let Go of Small Issues

When you blab about small issues, talented people want to pull their hair out.

But how can you tell the difference?

Let go of small issues. Do what matters now. Image of a dog facing a cat.

Release Small Issues

Obsessing over small issues wastes talent on trivialities.

#1. Mind your business. Insecurity needs to know everything. Arrogance believes it can fix people.

Meddling inspires apprehension. Fear slows progress.

#2. Establish priorities. You’re unworthy to lead until you have priorities.

Let go of small issues by doing what matters now.

#3. Lean toward silence with a smile. Excited extroverts and cloistered introverts create anxiety.

#4. Establish reporting only when issues matter.

#5. Protect your headspace. On a scale of 1-10, how much does this issue matter? Let others deal with 6’s or 7’s.

Obsessing over small issues wastes talent on trivialities.

Bring It Up When…

#1. Failure is about character. Honesty doesn’t need a high IQ.

#2. Others need to take action.

Stop expressing opinions. Are you blabbing because you love your own voice? Speak when you expect something to change.

#3. You hear excuses rather than responsibility.

#4. It’s a pattern. Once is fine. Three times is a problem.

#5. People fall below their capabilities.

  • What strengths are underutilized?
  • Are they able?
  • How much improvement is possible?

#6. They aspire to be better. Don’t pour into people who don’t care.

#7. You can adjust their role away from weakness.

Bonus: Bring it up when they’re working to improve, but persistently frustrated.

The Filter: What breaks if you say nothing?

How do you determine when to bring up an issue?

The 5 Seductions of Triviality

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