Courage Isn’t a Feeling
Fear doesn’t say, “Be a coward.”
It says, “Be careful.”
You need more information. The timing isn’t right. People might disapprove.
Fear’s Strategy
Fear says save yourself.
It doesn’t ask:
- What needs to be done?
- What serves the team?
- What does the mission require?
It does ask:
- What if I look stupid?
- What if they don’t like me?
- What if I fail?
Fear concerns self. Courage serves others.
5 Acts of Courage
Ryan Holiday argues that courage is action when fear invites retreat.
#1. Name the fear.
Vague fear expands. Specific fear shrinks.
Ask, “What exactly am I afraid will happen?”
#2. Count the wolves.
Imagination multiplies enemies. Critics seem more numerous before you count them.
#3. Focus on what’s in front of you.
You don’t need courage for next year. You need courage for the next conversation.
#4. Act before confidence arrives.
Confidence follows action.
- Speak up.
- Make the call.
- Set the boundary.
- Ask the question.
#5. Serve something bigger than yourself.
Self-protection shrinks courage. Purpose expands it.
The question isn’t, “How do I stay safe?”
Ask, “What does the mission require of me now?”
Courage isn’t feeling brave.
Courage is answering the call while fear is on the line.
Reflection: What conversation, decision, or action are you postponing because fear feels like wisdom?
Where does your courage come from?
12 Courageous Acts of Leadership – Leadership Freak
This post is inspired by Courage is Calling by Ryan Holiday.
