10 Ways to Rise Up After Screwing Up
Everyone who tries fails.
Growth happens when you fail and own it, not until. Everyone who blames stays the same.
The price of greatness is responsibility.
Taking responsibility sets leaders apart from the pack. Don’t be a martyr or a blamer. Just own it.
10 ways to rise up after screwing up:
- Own it or you’ll repeat it. Any failure you fail to own returns like a nagging pimple.
- Be proactive. Take charge of your failure before someone else does.
- Look at your performance through the eyes of a high-performer. How did you do?
- Explore how your failure impacts others. People trusted you.
- Evaluate expectations. How was success defined? Was there clarity?
- Focus on performance. Don’t make it personal. Lift yourself up. Don’t beat yourself down.
- Say three sentences after failure:
- I learned to …
- I learned not to …
- Next time I’ll …
- Answer the temptation to make excuses with accountability.
- Address recurring failure with systems. Create a checklist, for example.
- Delegate your weakness to someone else’s strength. Stay in your sweetspot as much as possible.
Bonus: Create a win quickly. Elevate your status and fuel positive energy by setting new goals and reaching them, publicly.
Strong leaders take responsibility; weak blame.
No excuses. No blaming.
- Excuse making validates a disappointing past.
- Excuse making drags failure into the present.
- Excuse making is another way of saying don’t change anything.
Hiding behind the failure of others makes you smaller than the people you hide behind.
Fear of failure:
The right amount of fear contributes to success. You don’t want to be embarrassed, disappoint yourself or others.
Fear of failure is concern for reputation.
Show me someone who doesn’t fear failure, at least a little, and I’ll show you a failure.
How can leaders rise up after screwing up?
How do you maximize mistakes?